It's been a busy week around here - my cousin Frankie was with us until Friday - he was very helpful to have around - he mostly kept to himself and spent his time getting homework done and playing games - but being able to let James sleep while I went to get the girls from school was a BIG advantage.
Tuesday was a bit crazy, Marie and the kids came over to play with us around lunch time - we filled up the little water table and the kids had fun making mud and soaking each other. In the evening, the missionaries and Dwayne and Nicole came over for another discussion about the Plan of Happiness - it's so neat to share these truths that I love and that I KNOW have made me a better person with people that I care about! I had to leave a bit early though for a meeting at a school - we are still trying to figure out what to do with Aaron for this upcoming school year..... followed by a presidency meeting at my house.
Wednesday we went to the library. The kids had fun at a "superhero" themed story time, and then we had fun in the kids are until James got cranky. The kids always enjoy the library - and the kids area there is nice and closed off, which is really helpful.
Eileen and Anna had a fun week at school - the school had 2 days of "immersion classes" where the kids got to pick a subject that they wanted to study and then spent 2 days with a teacher learning and doing cool things. Anna chose a cooking class - she got to have lots of fun learning about kitchen and dining etiquette and rules and cooking yummy food. Eileen chose an outdoor animal class where they got to spend time talking about animals, dissecting an owl pellet and then going to a local wild life refuge.
Great Grandpa Francone got Eileen a bird feeder and a bird house for Christmas and now that the weather is warming up - we are finally getting visitors to the feeder - Eileen has been having a blast watching for birds and then identifying them.
Anna has been having fun making playdough - we got a recipe from her teacher as part of a math assignment and she made 3 full batches of playdough - big batches - and the kids have been having fun playing with them. The recipe involved 15 minutes of kneading the dough - which she did amazingly well at - not only did she do almost all of the kneading, but she did it really well.
Friday was a fun, but totally exhausting day - since Dan would be leaving on a trip on Saturday morning, we had a birthday party for Dan on Friday night - which means that I spent almost all day Friday cooking and cleaning. We had lots of family and friends come over to celebrate with us and enjoyed lots of yummy food and had fun playing together - Evie told me the next day "mommy, I really liked having all our friends over here - I wish they could all come over again"
Saturday was dismal.... lol - not only was I still recovering from Friday but Dan left - I love my kids - but my world is SO much better with Dan in it - Eileen and Anna have recently started bickering a LOT - and both have been so self obsessed and unfeeling towards each other, and by Sunday, I was heartily sick of it - so before they could eat a yummy dinner, I made them sit down at the table and Eileen and Anna each had to say 1 nice thing about the other person, 2 nice things that the other person has done for them, and 3 nice things that they could do for the other person. After hearing their half hearted attempts (and not allowing comments like "she's nice to me SOMETIMES") we had a WONDERFUL dinner, full of polite conversation and kindness! I told the girls that any time they start fighting or arguing, they are going to have to sit down and do this again. :) This little idea was a flash of inspiration from the Spirit that I am SO grateful for - as I try and teach these children, I am so grateful for help and guidance from the wonderful examples around me and especially from the Holy Ghost and the prompting that he gives me in ways to help my kids understand and be a bit better.
Evie was so sweet this morning - as I was getting ready for church, she came in and saw me and said "I really like this skirt mommy! You look FABULOUS! I wish I could have a skirt like that!" Little sweetie made my day!



